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It’s most often than not defined as a sacred place to know people and to find life partners. The Church. I’ve been in church all my life, I’ve interacted with different types of personalities and I can confidently say that church is the best place to find friends with common interests and it’s not the best place to find a life partner. This is why.

Church is likened to a hospital. It comes all kinds of people with different diseases physically, emotionally and spiritually and all these people have come for healing and others have come just to volunteer to serve and others have come to give thanks for the healing they received (Testimonies). You need to k ow that people are sick on different levels some are even in the icu constatly being monitored by pastors and deacons. Nevertheless we all have one healer Jesus Christ in whose name we heal and receive healing.

So when you are finding a life partner the church might not be the best place. Some are blessed to find “perfect” matches and others are still working on their relationships and marriages. It’s good though to find someone that both of you agree in religious beliefs, money matters and life in general.

Most often than not people in church think that you cannot find love in the world of which you can find it but when it’s not defined like Christ had defined it it will cramble and fall. We all need to under stand that sex before marriage is wrong because you attract unfaithfulness into your marriage and unwanted pregnancies. We need to understand as young people that when were told not to engage in sexual activities is not for God to bless us or reward us no, it’s for our own good.

Sex is not an expression of love. Love can be expressed in many different ways and most importantly through actions. We usually say actions speak louder than words. And we need to understand that when we say the right things and do the right things we can express our love like that. Even God spoke things the right way and even had to sacrifice his own son just to show us how much he loves us. Understand it’s not all the time that you can say the right things but when you say wrong things or do wrong things apologize and when you’re done wrong forgive as sonn as you’ve been hurt that how Christian dating and love works. You must agree in different ways of lifestyle and be ready to apologize and forgive.